Romance and Texting

3. November 2009 by admin.

November 3, 2009

Psychic Readings by Kathleen

What never fails to amaze me is the changes that have been wrought in relationships due to our increasing dependence on technology for communication.  Don’t get me wrong I love technology.  In matters of the heart however, it speeds the romantic dance up to a fevered pitch.  A couple connects and within a day they are texting each other all day long and into the wee hours of the morning.  There is an expectation of constant communication which in my experience is counterintuitive.

Relationship building is like baking a hearty bread.  It takes time.  From the spark to sharing and turn off now takes a matter of days. Romance has become another fast foody option.  Meet someone; like the flavour (appearance and superficial personality characteristics), text each other twenty times a day until you hit a snag and it’s over.  Next?

I hear from men and women, “But s/he hasn’t responded to my messages in two days.  Have they met someone else?” Back in my single days (twenty years ago), if I didn’t get a call from someone in a couple of weeks, I just assumed he was as busy as I was. But now it would seem if you haven’t heard from someone in a couple of days, it’s a dud.

All of this immediate and intense communication between newly inspired couples acts as a barrier to full and proper psychic absorption. How do you feel about this person without hearing OR reading another thing about them?  What are your dreams in the interim revealing? How would you know if you don’t give yourself some time for this exciting new attraction to settle into your being?  Don’t assume that just because you haven’t heard from them in a few days it’s because you didn’t make quite the mind blowing impression you had worked so hard to effect.  Instead use the quiet for a much needed intuitive check in. Exillerating and romantic stories are the ones that have flowered in a garden of mystery, elusiveness and anticipation.

All relationships are getting infected by this apparent compulsion for communication.  Kids are expected to check in throughout the day so parents know where they are and what their plans are.  I couldn’t have imagined anything more abhorent to me as a child than having to notify my parents regularly about where I am, whom I’m with and when I’d be home.  They were invasive enough in my view.  When I left the house in the morning for school I was happy to know I’d see my family later for dinner.

Certainly people are getting frustrated and annoyed by how text responsive they are expected to be to their work place.  ”You had your blackberry turned off?, the boss inquires with a raised brow on Monday morning as if you are a pathetic loser.  A slacker or derelict that can be easily replaced by a more willing and responsive servant, you need hardly be reminded.

Boundaries and privacy are as vital to the health of a relaitonship as kissing.  When you meet someone who sets your soul on fire, give the sacredness of the experience to grow.  Avoid texting.  If they don’t call you in a couple of weeks, use the time to put your intuition to work.  Too much too fast brings a natural cycle to climax too quickly.  Given enough time and contemplation this person could be just the one you’d thrill to be with for an eon.  Be the one to say you don’t text when you meet that special someone.  Texting is a characteristically too cold a medium to support and nurture an authentic soul connect.

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I am now accepting registrations for the Introduction to the Tarot class beginning Thursday January 14, 2010 7 - 9 PM at the Kitchener Downtown Community Centre. Cost $189 - a $100 nonrefundable deposit will secure your place.  In the Introduction I introduce keys to aid you in the memorization of the cards’ meanings.  We also explore the various theoretical background to the cards: her/history, psychology and their spiritual significance.  The Intermediate to the Tarot will follow the Introduction for students wishing to learn how to read the cards for others.

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“”I’m going to pull into this gas station and get directions,” Wayne said as he turned off the road.  Anne’s eyes grew wide.  ”I don’t believe it,” she said loudly and stomped her feet on the floorboardsd with childlike excitement.  When he was out of sight, she threw her head back and laughed, thrilled to have found a man who could ask for directions without hesitation. She’d known from their first date that Wayne was a remarkable person, but in that seemingly inconsequential instant she realized that she could honestly love him.

As Wayne returned to the car, he stopped and looked at her through the window.  The grin on her face matched the way he felt inside.
Their second date hadn’t turned out exactly as he’d planned; Anne had spent almost half of it unconscious. But even more unexpected was the thought that had planted itself firmly in Wayne’s mind over the preceding hours; he was going to ask Anne out again, and then-at some time, he didn’t know how, nor did he know when- he was going to ask her to marry him.”

The Priest and the Medium 2009 by Suzanne Giesemann

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